How to know? Plain and simple: Ask Him.
Since we're not him, I can't make assumptions about the situation, but best way to clear up ANY questions is to talk about it - when you're both sober. They say alcohol is a depressant since it depresses your "appropriate behavior" filter. If things are happening such as you say, whether or not he tells you want you want to hear, best to get it out NOW so you both know you are on the same page.
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Calling from deep in the heart, from where the eyes can't see and the ears can't hear, from where the mountain trails end and only love can go... ~~~ Three Rivers Hare Krishna
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