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I have a friend like that. We've been buds for almost 20 years. We just clicked when we met & had an awful lot of respect & admiration for each other, however, nothing so touchy feely as you, but definately a connection.
Then, stupidly, when I was drunk one night I pushed the envelope & we came thisclose to going all the way. He stopped me, we did have significant others at the time. He was a smart man to do so.
I am kinda sorry it happened, for I see now that we have an awesome friendship, but I would never fit in the role of his woman. I'm just not his type anyway. Which is alright, he's not exactly my idea of a perfect mate, but he is the best friend I ever had. Because we didn't go further that night & potentially ruin a great friendship, we still remain close & my boyfriend & I occasionally socialize with him & his wife. It would have been a shame to lose him & have him gone from my life.
So you could go for the awesome one-nighter, but there is a lot more satisfaction in a lifelong comrade.
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