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Instead of telling her, show her.
My roomy told me when there was this girl that he really liked hanging out with, he'd tell her how he felt and the impact she is having in his life and how great it is that they've met. This was too much for her to bare, and she freacked out (a little) and has drawn away. And it's happened a few other times with other gals.
If your planning to have a romantic relationship with this gal, you're going to have to kiss her. If platomic is all you have in mind, exchange keys, so that each of you has a spare key to the other place (if you each have your own place).
And good luck.
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"I don't know that I ever wanted greatness, on its own. It seems rather like wanting to be an engineer, rather than wanting to design something - or wanting to be a writer, rather than wanting to write. It should be a by-product, not a thing in itself. Otherwise, it's just an ego trip."
Roger Zelazny
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