nice work cj2112. i'm proud of you.
and drider, you're still good with the mrs., right?
this goes for almost any topic...
it isn't terribly healthy to live in fear of the bad that might happen.
enjoy the good in which you live
and share in your collective joy as a family.
i don't want to divert the thread, but here i go.
for those that ask,
here's my situation:
(for lack of a better word)
my babymama just decided that i wasn't the one for her.
i don't even know if i really qualify as a single parent.
i am a parent, and i am single, so i tend to think yes, i am a single parent.
but mom isn't totally out of the picture.
she lives near by (<10 min),
and cares for him about 15 - 20 hrs / wk.
he stays with me every night,
sees her some days.
so while my home is a motherless home,
my child is not a motherless child.
my babymama and i are in discussions
about the particulars.
she doesn't want to "drag a lawyer into it"
i'd be a damn fool to not get everything in writing
and filed officially with the state.
perhaps i'll start another thread for advice on this soon.
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xoxo
doodle
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