About to tell a girl I like her, help needed.
Hello all,
Lately I've been hanging out with a really cool girl. We've seen each other pretty much everyday for a last couple weeks and since then I've gotten to know her pretty well and developed more then just friendship feelings for her.
It's been a long time since I've felt this way about a girl so I'm a bit rusty at how to convey my feelings about her to her without sounding you know, weird. I've written down what I would like to say and was hoping maybe you guys can give it a read and see if it sounds alright?
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Hey XXX, I really enjoy hanging out with you and I feel like over the last couple weeks we’ve developed a good friendship. You probably know that I like you and I know you’ve had a rough few months lately. I’m sorry if what I’m about to saying is going to make you uncomfortable but I have to get it off my chest because I don’t want to wonder ‘what if’ for the rest of my life like with some of the other girls in the past.
I really like you. You’re a beautiful, intelligent, and funny person and I’ve really enjoyed the time we’ve spent together the last couple weeks. It’s okay if you don’t feel the same way about me. You are and always will be my friend, and I will be here for you anytime you need me.
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I've always been shy so it's really hard for me to say something like this. Because of the shyness I've let girls slip away and I don't want this to happen with her because I like her alot. Regardless of what happens, I am determined to tell her how I feel.
Your thoughts?
Thanks
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After re-reading that I think I could close it better? Should I ask her what she feels about me or just leave it open like that and wait for a natural response?
Last edited by able; 06-21-2005 at 09:44 AM..
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