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Just be very careful and understand what a difficult position you're putting yourself in. Long distance relationships are NOT FUN. They suck horrible horrible ass. Talking with someone over the phone or on AIM or through e-mails is nowhere in the same vacinity as having your girl pillowing her head on your shoulder while you watch a movie or eating dinner with her or anything like that.
One of my ex's who is otherwise a wonderful girl that I really missed the boat on by not getting in a relationship with her earlier turned into a complete bitch because of the distance thing. When I stayed with her grandparents over Thanksgiving one year, her own grandmother called her out on how bitchy she was being to me. And this is really one of the sweetest girls I've ever met. I've never heard anyone anywhere ever call her out like that, not even people who don't particularly like her. It can and does wear you down. When you're going long distance and then see the other person, the emotions (and hormones) kind of go crazy and can make the experience much less fun than it really ought to be. As someone else noted, you can also change a lot, so be aware that you and she might not be the same, which can make the transition difficult, if not impossible.
If you're convinced that this girl is worth a lot of, "God damn that girl is hot and wants me and I'm horny as hell but I'm with [current g/f] and want to be with her, period" or "I'm really tired of not being able to see her, but it's important to me that we're still together when I do see her" etc. etc., then go for it, but if there's any shred of doubt, you're better off letting it go and seeing what happens when you get back.
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