I've never been involved in a long distance seperation like this, so I can't really speak from first hand experience.
But if it was me and I was going to have to go away, I'd definitly at least give it a chance. I mean whats the worst that could happen? If it doesn't work out, then you can end it. You have nothing to lose.
But if you end it now before you even give it a chance, theres no turning back. It's finished, and the chances of getting back together aftwards are a lot slimmer I'd think. If it was me and I let her go, i'd regret it at the end of the year.
Also if you do end it now, how is that going to make things better? Just because you end the relationship's title doesn't mean you won't miss her and what not, right?
Or are you planning on finding somebody else while you're there? Won't you have this same delima to go through when the year is over though?
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