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Hi everyone, thanks for the great responses.
Yeah, next time, after I get her cell phone # (which I got from AIM the first time haha), I'll just call her instead. At least I *saw* that I was "put aside" for an hour and a half, and I don't have to waste time chasing someone who's not interested. Plus I should stop dwelling on AIM!
Yeah, I believe most of you are correct; I should move on, but make this girl into just a "friend".
Now, here's where my inexperience again gets the better of me. One reason why I don't meet many women is because I don't have many friends who are girls. Apparently, my friends tell me that if only I made more girls into just friends instead of chasing them, that the girls would introduce me to even more girls, and yada yada I'd be alot better off by now.
So what would you guys suggest for making this girl into just a friend? I'm afraid if I ask her to social outtings or to go work out, etc, that I'd come off as trying to get another date, which I'm not...
I've also read on the internet from Mr. Guru (David Deangelo) that I should explicitly say stuff like "Oh hey, you make a great friend."
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