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Originally Posted by tiltedbc
I wouldn't read too much into this AIM stuff. There may have been something big going on or maybe she's trying to make you sweat. I'd suggest only talking to her on that for a couple minutes at a time and only to tell her what you're up to.
Women are just as nervous about this stuff as you. Just take it slow.
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As a woman who uses AIM frequently to talk to guys I can tell you that if a woman puts you aside/doesn't respond for THAT long--she's not interested. It's not about making a guy sweat--and believe me, you wouldn't want to be with a woman who would make you sweat. If there had been something big going on, she would have said so.
If a woman on AIM responds repeatedly to your comments with "uh-huh", "yeah," "hmm", "okay", "right", or other non-committal one-word answers...she's not interested. A woman who is interested will display active listening skills just like she would in a REAL conversation--asking questions, saying things beyond "uh-huh" like "oh you poor thing" that display an actual presence, or relaying similar experiences of her own. If this is not the case--keep on truckin'.
I've had a bitch of a time explaining this to my best friend--who reads into AIM conversations more than he should and gets the wrong reading completely.