Have you asked her *why* she feels this way? Does she know you're planning on getting married one day? Why don't you talk to her about this- the first thing that makes a good relationship is COMMUNICATION and that is doubly so if you get married. So start practicing. If you have been together for so long I have no idea why you don't already know the answer to the "why doesn't she want to have sex?" question.
Also, if you know you love her and want to marry her, why not ask her? Don't ask her because you want to get laid, but just propose already and let her know how much you care about her!
Oh, and I wouldn't suggest having the "why do you want to wait to have sex" talk and the proposal on the same day.... good luck!
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