I'm in the camp of women are more likely to be "out" about experimenting.
Anomaly: That study looks all "scholarly," but I don't agree with it. Did you know that most gay men don't stay that way their whole lives? (just a random example). That study seemed too focused on women.
I agree that mens' sexuality is more reflexive, but something must be said about the anxiety behind homophobia that goes on with most guys I know. Here's an old
writeup on Badsubjects. Believing that mens' sexuality is reflexive can also mean that they don't really care about
what their fucking as long as they get off.