I think being told 50 times a day that i'm beautiful, sweet, etc. would get a little old, and irritating. I'd be thinking, "ok, ok I get it. Shush." I think it's much more special when compliments are used only every once in a while. I am also one who believes that showing is much more effective then just telling.
I am also one who only prefers a few "pet names" and I am one who prefers to only hear them from my SO or someone I'm extremely close to and care about. If a guy I just met starts calling me "babe" or "sweetheart" I'm not going to take it very well. I have a name. Use it.
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