Another question about compliments, this time the other way around...
I am a guy who compliments, a lot. In fact I think that I do it enough that it might be looked at as insincere. My question to you all is, if someone tells you that you're beautiful, amazing, georgous, sweet, etc. everyday, a few times a day, then does it lose its meaning to you? Should I not do that as much and hold out so it might count for more? I always mean what I say, and even if I say it 50 times a day I mean it every time. I just don't want it to look like A) I"m trying to hard and B) that its insincere.
My second question goes along with this. This time however it has to do with terms of enderment. I use them with every woman I know. Its a habit, to the point that I've started to notice it a lot. What do you guys (both sexes) think of these terms of enderement (honey, babe, darling, sweetheart, etc.)? can they be overused (and if so whats the consequences?). How do you react to them when heard, and what do you think of the person saying them? I know it varies depending, but a general overview would be nice.
Any comments are encouraged and welcome. Thank you
Rugger
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