Originally Posted by jRuntlets

Hey Ladies,
Thanks again for the great advice you all offered.
I broke it off with him last night. Isn't it funny how their stories change in 24 hours? Sunday he told me he was in a blind rage, and didn't realize at the time that he hit me. Monday he told me that wasn't a blind rage (which if it wasn't I'd be scared to see one) and that he hit me because he, "Felt like it was my fault.", thus blaming me for the choking/throwing up incident. Knowing what I already know about abuse, it was over. The biggest line that men give women that they hit is that it was the woman's fault they hit them, and that they deserved it. I noted to him that since I already feel threatened by the fact that he hit me if he tries to reappear I will take swift legal action against him. And then hung up.

I left somethings that were over at my house with his mom today. I ended up telling her the whole story and crying. She gave me a hug and told me that there was someone better out there for me, and if I ever needed anything to call. She also noted that he had some anger issues. I think it would be hard to take if my son's now ex, told me he hit her. I don't know. I really liked his parents and feel sorry for them.