You need to not be so transparent about what you want. It's a game, man. You can't show all of your cards.
At this point, after what you have done, I would feign your interest falling off. Don't be looking for anything too serious...let her dictate. At least that way you're not falling over her every word and love sick and this and that over her. That's exactly how she wants you--that's her game. Once a guy get's like that, they're broken in, and the girl will move on.
Any girl who is NOT playing games would take a guy like you, who has said the things you said, and been like YES FINALLY LETS GO OUT OMG! But she's not, she's playing mind games. You've got the control man. Just realize much better girls are out there, and she is expendable, and rejection from her means nothing more than rejection from someone thousands of miles away you've never met before.
Keep this in perspective...you're more than this, you've got a future beyond this with or without her...probably with someone better. I would stop showing so much interest in her and see what happens if she thinks you're not dying to be with her anymore.
Just don't be afraid to walk away from this.
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