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Originally Posted by Sage
Do not call him, and don't accept any calls from him after you break up- I say this because he might try to "guilt" you back into dating him ie- "It was a total accident, baby, you know I love you, I'd never do it again, etc etc etc."
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I agree - this is a red flag of an abuser. Sometimes they try to give you gifts which end up just guilt tripping you more because they're just so "sweet". The best way for a breakup is completely cutting things off. It's hard but you can hope that maybe he will wake up and get himself help.
I also liked the idea of telling a superior. I've read articles about a number of guys who've come back from serving overseas (especially in Iraq) who had some anger issues and harmed their spouses until they got help. He shouldn't be ashamed because it's not abnormal.
Good Luck Girl - I'll be checking back to see how he takes it.
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