Thanks for the info gals. It's clear to me the trust is gone, and I'll never feel right with him again. It's over. I just have to tell him tonight. I'm figuring tonight will be best because it's Monday, and he's stationed at a base about 2 hours away. He won't be coming home til Friday. This gives him time to vent with "the guys", and cool off so maybe he won't do anything stupid when he gets home (although he's never shown inclination to do so, after this incident it's clear I don't know him the way I thought I did.)
As far as talking to his mom, I'd like to but they're really close. So I'm concerned that she'll tell him I'm going to break up with him before I do. *sigh* These things are very hard but I have to do what is best for me.
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