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Redlemon · 06-11-2005, 02:59 AM

I think there's a dynamic that you are missing here:

D desires you sexually.
D doesn't desire Ratbastid.
Ratbastid and Lurkette are a package deal.

Remember while you were still courting D and S? And she kept switching back and forth as to if she wanted to get involved? See above. She didn't want to hurt you guys, but eventually she gave in, because she really wanted you.

Now, you are still coming on to her, but she can't have you unless she also takes Ratbastid. It's a hard thing to balance.

I think you need to drop her as a potential lover if you want to keep her as a friend.

06-11-2005, 02:59 AM	#23 (permalink)
Redlemon Devoted Donor Location: New England	I think there's a dynamic that you are missing here: D desires you sexually. D doesn't desire Ratbastid. Ratbastid and Lurkette are a package deal. Remember while you were still courting D and S? And she kept switching back and forth as to if she wanted to get involved? See above. She didn't want to hurt you guys, but eventually she gave in, because she really wanted you. Now, you are still coming on to her, but she can't have you unless she also takes Ratbastid. It's a hard thing to balance. I think you need to drop her as a potential lover if you want to keep her as a friend. __________________ I can't read your signature. Sorry.