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ngdawg · 06-10-2005, 11:49 AM

In viewing the friendship as a whole, who is the giver and who is the taker?
I tend to draw takers and after a while it gets old, but when they turn their attention elsewhere, I feel hurt, even knowing what they are in reality.
I do have to kind of disagree with the notion that loving more than one person wholly does not detract from loving another.One or both relationships get shortchanged and people are too different frome one another to be loved equally. Been there, done that, didn't get the tshirt.
Instead of feeling unloved because one person couldn't see your wonderful soul, turn to the one who loves you more than any other....and realize how worth it you really are to be loved exclusively and wholly.

06-10-2005, 11:49 AM	#17 (permalink)
ngdawg peekaboo Location: on the back, bitch	In viewing the friendship as a whole, who is the giver and who is the taker? I tend to draw takers and after a while it gets old, but when they turn their attention elsewhere, I feel hurt, even knowing what they are in reality. I do have to kind of disagree with the notion that loving more than one person wholly does not detract from loving another.One or both relationships get shortchanged and people are too different frome one another to be loved equally. Been there, done that, didn't get the tshirt. Instead of feeling unloved because one person couldn't see your wonderful soul, turn to the one who loves you more than any other....and realize how worth it you really are to be loved exclusively and wholly. __________________ Don't blame me. I didn't vote for either of'em.