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Originally Posted by zen_tom
It really is no thrill to hear someone droning on about how 'fucked up they are' all the time. I doubt that's what his motives are. What are your motives? Try spending a whole day trying to make other people happy. It will take your mind off yourself, and you might start to see things in a new light.
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Some people have an inate sense to protect others and will always lend a caring ear if they feel someone close to them is in need of it. I know I do this for a few people in my life and its just a gut reaction, I can't control it. Although it does get tiring at times, to hear the same problem over and over and have it not be solved, I really can't keep myself from wanting to help. Don't question everything in your life, by making it dramatic now you are ensuring that it will end dramaticly, it's a sign of a lacking confidence in onesself if you are afraid to give all you have to someone if you feel like you should, If they screw it up then its their fault not yours, you should feel better about yourself that you can still act naturally in a realtionship, you will be making yourself quite a catch to the person who can be just as natural and comfortable.