By adding someone to the marriage, it can take the original two to new levels with an additional person. It does not become a Love one person less because you now love someone else. In fact, sometimes it makes the marriage stronger because each partner has to consciously choose to grow in maturity for it to work. It is certainly not for everyone. I applaud Lurkette and Ratbastid that they feel secure enough in their relationship and trust that they can explore these new areas together.
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Calling from deep in the heart, from where the eyes can't see and the ears can't hear, from where the mountain trails end and only love can go... ~~~ Three Rivers Hare Krishna
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