The idea that being nice is a defense mechanism in itself is interesting. That's basically what I told this guy as well - I figured he must get some kinda thrill from knowing that I am more fucked up than he is. I termed it as 'collecting fucked up ppl'. Knowing that others are messed up prolly makes him feel better about his fucked up ness. At least that is the conclusion I came to.
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"You can close your eyes to reality but not to memories" -Stainslaw J. Lec
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