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Originally Posted by JustJess
I think D looked like your puzzle piece, but perhaps you don't fit, and it's okay. You're still enough, and more than enough.
The goal is always to have that confidence in yourself for yourself, but until you get there, listen to Ratbastid. He loves you for very good reasons - because you're you. -snip- Changing entire patterns of thought and behavior is scary and hard as hell.
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Oh, Lurkette... I'm not in your situation exactly, but I can very much identify with your insecurities and doubts. Jess is talking to me as much as she is to you, here... and we are all in the same boat.
From the limited amount I know, I'd say you aren't very compatible with this woman... and that's okay, like Jess said. It's no fault of yours. But I do think you should remember how things went with Ratbastid, and go back to the security you have found in yourself via him (I'm still getting there with ktspktsp), and stand firmly until another potential girlfriend comes along.
Remember that you're sort of "dating" all over again, looking for love, and there's a really good chance it'll take some searching, some wrong matches, before you find a good fit. Especially if you are looking for a significant relationship, not just a fling. Give it time and be patient with yourself.
