Me thinks that polyamorous relationships take a certain maturity level (from everyone involved) to really work. Some enter them looking for serious relationships, and some enter them for the fun-factor. Those not mature enough to handle the dynamics of a more complex relationship are usually just looking for a good time. Unfortunately, from what you've written, it sounds like the two of you are on opposite ends of the scale here. No advise on how to fix that, sorry =/. Sometimes people are just who they are, attempting to change them could drive you insane.
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