maleficent

First off - {{{{{HUG}}}}}}

Now... until you beleive yourself to be loveable, you aren't going to be sure that others really do love you as well, and will need that constant testing of their love. If only you could see yourself the way that the folks in the land of TFP see you... You are an amazing woman... you are intelligent, beautiful, kind, sexy as hell, great sense of humor, you are what most people would aspire to be. (And I know you didn't start t his thread to have your ego stroked either)

If you aren't sure if you are in love with her, then you probably arent. Real love I don't think you question to much. You are probably in love with the idea of her, and she's what is in front of you right now. There a re plenty of women out there thata would love to be in D's shoes.. and would treat you the way you need, want and deserve to be treated.

I'd probably guess that it's this other woman hitting on D and not you is what the problem is...This other woman clearly has no taste so there is no reason to be jealous at all...

You need to remind yourself daily of your awesomeness...Whatever it takes to do that...a fishbowl in the bathrooom filled with pieces of paper of all your good qualities that you read once a day, a daily email you send yourself about how amazing you are, your self worth comes from within you, not what other people think about you... once you love yourself, you will see how many other people love you too...

I'm babbling now.. I'll stop for a while...

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