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This is all about her so give the time she needs. You are affected, yes, but whether she has you in her life or not, these are things that she needs to deal with so that means, in this situation, she is number one. If you stand by her through this time with patience and love and support, she may come out from under this burden with a greater love and respect for you.
If, however, you don't think you can, or don't want to stick this relationship out - figure that out ASAP.
I would suggest some reading on how to deal with relationships in crisis. It will help you understand how best to communicate with her during this very sensitive time.
Even if she vaults out of this trauma and decides to not be with you, you can feel extra special good about how you handled the situation. Very good karma points for you.
Best of luck and keep us posted.
/hugs
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Maybe it was over when she chucked me out the Rover at full speed.
Maybe Maybe...
~a-Ha
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