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Understand first....she will never truly get over the emotional/sexual damage done to her,Period. If you decide to be there for her....it will be a very difficult path you embark on, and life will be unpleasant for quite some time. That said, the opportunity to help someone in a profound way seldom happens for no reason, and you can gain much through it as well. No one here can give you the direction this must go, only you know if it is worth the pain to gain ratio.
All I can say is....Good Luck.
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Holding onto anger is like grasping a hot coal with the intent of throwing it at someone else; you are the one who gets burned. - Buddha
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