I second Sage. look at this as a chance to try something new. did you ever wish you could just go out and do something without having to consider your gf (now your ex)? Now you can. You can associate freely. Your pain isn't going to go away soon. Maybe not for years. but it will get duller.
what about the girl you kissed? there must have been a reason... is she refreshing? cute? a change?
Looks like your ex ws just looking for any excuse to move on and didn't have the guts to do it without one. so go out and have fun. don't look for a replacement (rebound is unfair to both parties) Just go out and be what you are, and if you are a likeable person, somebody will be attracted to you (your mission: to see how long it takes/and who it is...). remember, you were living a life before you met your ex, so there's no reason why you can't continue to do so..
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