You need to cut her out of your life. PERIOD. It doesn't take another girl or anything else. Just a decision. It isn't going anywhere. CUT her out of your life and that means NO communication whatsoever. If you pressure her, she may "settle" for you and that's even worse in the longterm.
Your big problem is you don't know what to do. You're uneducated like most of us.
Despite the awful title, an excellent book on this subject is "Without Embarrassment: The Social Coward's Totally Fearless Seduction System" by Michael Pilinski. It's got some great stuff about how to get over the "nice guy" blues, which is what you're going through. Search around online for the ebook or buy the hardcopy.
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