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Originally Posted by Acetylene
Dang, man, get yourself a therapist. Screaming so hard you start vomiting is an extreme physical reaction, and you have passed the 2-month "normal" grief period. Talk therapy is what you need.
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Agreed. Unless you can realize on your own that this relationship is not going to restart right now and can deal with that on your own, a therapist is a necessity. You both kissed someone else which tells me you both had some doubts about your current situation. While you have determined that your kiss was in error, it doesn't appear that she feels the same way. You can try fighting but I don't think that will help. You may be better off letting her explore this other relationship. That doesn't mean that you will get her back but she has already told you she isn't interested in renewing the relationship.
I really think your best bet is to just be her friend and move on in the love department. If and when she is ready to renew the relationship, she will let you know. Until then, exlore your options as well.