Of course it was more exciting than anything you have done with your girlfriend. You were intimate with someone who is a friend and you took that friendship to the next level. To answer everyone This isnt sex. It is an exchange of power, PERIOD. Now that's not to say it was or wasn't cheating. The intimacy you and your friend shared can cause a sexual rush but so can skinny dipping with a cousin. Is that cheating? The big question is how serious are you about your girlfriend? You really need to evaluate this before yu do anything. If you really love her and care for her, you two need to talk, but be ready for her to look for things to throw, and dont give specifics or names keep it brief, explain that both of you were clothed and leave it at that. If she demands specifics dont give them, she is looking for fuel for her gas operated castrator. Above all get across to her there was no sex but you still feel guilty about it.
Beyond that consider this: Could this have happened due to your friend's breakup or is it possible that she feels something more for you than you realize or perhaps you have feelings for her. Hey nobody ever said life is simple
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