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Can't be friends with someone like that -- its never worked for me, at least.
It seems to me an ultimatum is in order: "I love you too much to be 'just friends.' If you say you don't want anything more, than I'm afraid I can't be your friend either."
If she refuses, then the burden is put on her, not you.
I've never found being "just a friend" to be successful. You'll take the slightest movement as "She's changed her mind!" and come right back...
I had a girl do this to me for almost a year.............. IT IS NOT WORTH IT.
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