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SparklingDot · 06-04-2005, 11:34 PM

Try not to stress about it. This is normal. It may mean that you are too stressed out, or maybe that you guys don't know what you're doing. (Not accusing mind you, just speaking from personal experience.) Why not try going to the book store and looking at the sex/ love section? If you browse, you could get some ideas. If you buy a book (Like maybe K.I.S.S Kama Sutra for example) you'd have a reference guide nearby.

Try to relax, and let your sweetie know that it isnt his fault if you don't have an orgasm. Things will start to happen as you are more comfortable with each other and yourselves. When your sweetie asks, don't lie. Tell him if you did or not. If you didn't, make sure you tell him what you did enjoy about the experience. That should help a little bit.If you tell him you did when you really didn't, you could be training him to do the wrong things, and that means your collective sexual knowledge and experience won't grow. Be honest, and help each other.

06-04-2005, 11:34 PM	#6 (permalink)
SparklingDot Insane	Try not to stress about it. This is normal. It may mean that you are too stressed out, or maybe that you guys don't know what you're doing. (Not accusing mind you, just speaking from personal experience.) Why not try going to the book store and looking at the sex/ love section? If you browse, you could get some ideas. If you buy a book (Like maybe K.I.S.S Kama Sutra for example) you'd have a reference guide nearby. Try to relax, and let your sweetie know that it isnt his fault if you don't have an orgasm. Things will start to happen as you are more comfortable with each other and yourselves. When your sweetie asks, don't lie. Tell him if you did or not. If you didn't, make sure you tell him what you did enjoy about the experience. That should help a little bit.If you tell him you did when you really didn't, you could be training him to do the wrong things, and that means your collective sexual knowledge and experience won't grow. Be honest, and help each other. __________________ 17 seconds is all you really need - Smashing Pumpkins Last edited by SparklingDot; 06-04-2005 at 11:37 PM..