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I'm sorry to begin another rant, but I just need to get this off my chest. It's been a month since I started this thread and I really enjoy being with this girl now. I was home for the previous two weeks so that I could visit the family before I head off to airline training. The girl offered to pick me up at Midway airport, near her family's place (and I didn't even ask!) and drive me down to my apartment at school. We figured we could spend Thursday evening, Friday, and some of Saturday together before we had to say goodbye for another three weeks or something.
Apparently my previously mentioned roommate who I thought had gotten over this development had, in fact, not. We (my gf and I) planned on going out to eat and just relaxing back at the apartment watching a movie. We didn't get to watch the movie because the roommate commandeered the TV to watch a Cubs game, by the end of which the gf was asleep. We should have just left. Even so, while there he would be really short with both of us, implying that we were slighting him with every word uttered. Besides this he would sometimes stare at her which made her wicked uncomfortable. When the game ended he made it a point to hang around much longer than necessary and make snide/just plain mean comments while talking to me about the training we were going to. Yes, we are training together at the airline, oh joy.
This whole situation made the gf so uncomfortable that she didn't want to spend the night at my apartment with him there. I know she doesn't have a problem staying here normally because she has in the past. She ended up staying on the couch of a good mutual friend of ours. This friend of ours has been great, letting us spend time at his place as opposed to mine since my roommate has been so bad. Unfortunately, this meant that when we were hanging out at his place, we still weren't alone. The only time we had together, alone, was the drive from Chicago to school.
I don't really know what to do now. On one hand, we are now (sort of) going our seperate ways since we are no longer living together and my gf will be moving to another university for med school. this would mean we won't have these awkward situations anymore. On the other hand, I really want to make it known to him just how uncomfortable he has been making us and how horribly he's been treating us and everyone around us lately. His behavior made a potentially very enjoyable weekend into a very awkward few days for my gf and I.
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