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		 I have a huge family, who mostly know each other, so my first wedding was about 150 people, mostly relatives. 
 
Lebell and I went for the close friends and relatives wedding and had only about 30 people.  It was wonderful -- lots of fun and very personal!  I would do it all over again the same way -- screw the gifts!   
 
(Mho, big weddings are about showing off and getting gifts.) 
		
		
		
		
		
			
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