Originally Posted by Stare At The Sun

I might have taken this comment the wrong way, however, I took it as "So what?" I think what he's trying to say that you should just let things go, and develop naturally through trust, instead of trying to force things upon her, and make her get off, instead of just letting it happen.

Time heals all wounds, and I think with time, and the more trust the two of you have, it will work out. Self-exploration, and seeking professional help are also quite good ideas. I still think her totally trusting you, and allowing herself to be open is the number one thing. If she feels at all closed off, it will simply cause more harm than good.