She needs to get over her fear and either jump in or give up the realtionship. Who DOESN'T feel scared getting into a relationship? Anyone whose been hurt before has a fear of making themselves vunderable to another. It's ironic how she is so scared of getting herself hurt and in turn is hurting you.
Sit her down and tell her straight out how you feel and what her behaviour is doing to you. If she doesn't change, move on, you can do better and you deserve better. Never settle for someone who sacrifices your emotional well being for their own.
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