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Sweetpea · 06-01-2005, 03:48 PM

i think it's great you're reaching out to someone you love.

some have noted it's "not your job to fix someone" . . . and it's not . . . but it is a responsibility we have to those we love to extend a helping hand when we know they need one, so i respect and applaud you for reaching out to help her.
Rape is a difficult thing and can affect someone profoundly their whole lives, especially if they don't seek counseling, i would encourage her to do so or to talk about it with someone she trusts.

here's a couple resources: I'm not sure which state you are in..

http://www.rainn.org/centers/index.html

and here's some general info. for you (and her)

http://troubledwith.com/Web/groups/p...pic_008402.cfm

As a further note, it might not be the rape affecting her at all...

I never orgasmed until i was 21 years old . . . and it was just as simple as i was very repressed and from a repressed sexual background, i got a vibrator, i had never masturbated and i basically had to learn how to do it much later than most women do . . . and been cumming everyday since

Does she have a vibrator? does she masturbate? Was is her religious background? Would you classify her as repressed in any way?

Thanks,

Sweetpea

06-01-2005, 03:48 PM	#6 (permalink)
Sweetpea Fade out Location: in love	i think it's great you're reaching out to someone you love. some have noted it's "not your job to fix someone" . . . and it's not . . . but it is a responsibility we have to those we love to extend a helping hand when we know they need one, so i respect and applaud you for reaching out to help her. Rape is a difficult thing and can affect someone profoundly their whole lives, especially if they don't seek counseling, i would encourage her to do so or to talk about it with someone she trusts. here's a couple resources: I'm not sure which state you are in.. http://www.rainn.org/centers/index.html and here's some general info. for you (and her) http://troubledwith.com/Web/groups/p...pic_008402.cfm As a further note, it might not be the rape affecting her at all... I never orgasmed until i was 21 years old . . . and it was just as simple as i was very repressed and from a repressed sexual background, i got a vibrator, i had never masturbated and i basically had to learn how to do it much later than most women do . . . and been cumming everyday since Does she have a vibrator? does she masturbate? Was is her religious background? Would you classify her as repressed in any way? Thanks, Sweetpea __________________ Having a Pet Will Change Your Life! Looking for a great pet?! Click Here! "I am the Type of Person Who Can Get Away With A lot, Simply Because I Don't Ask Permission for the Privilege of Being Myself" Last edited by sweetpea; 06-01-2005 at 03:51 PM..