The rape is a complicating factor, but if she never had an orgasm by the age of 18, it's not the source of the issue. Not that I think you should go after it with her--if the rape is still a major issue for her (and I'd be stunned if it wasn't), then anything she does around sex will have that lurking under the surface.
Get her some councelling. Is she in school? Most schools have people for their students to talk to.
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