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My Girlfriend has never orgasumed.
Well i guess the topic pretty much sums up my delima. I suppose most guys wouldnt care as long as they get theirs but i am really feeling down about it and that she should be getting hers too.
I have talked to her about it and she says that she has never had an orgasum. Not one her whole life and she thinks it stems from when she was raped about 2 or 3 years ago. Shes 21 now and im 20 and we've been going out for about a year now.
Im not an expert on rape counsoling and i dont know really what to say to her or how to help her except to tell her to go to a sex therepists or one that spicificly deals in rape. I just wish i could help her let go because she tells me i am doing a good job and that she is enjoying it but for some reason cant come. I have tried going down on her but she wont let me, she just doesnt feel comfortable with it.
Any further advice?
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Funky cold madena!
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