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Ustwo · 05-29-2005, 10:56 AM

Mmm interesting...

I tried to think of times I'd been humiliated and I can't. I'm not saying I have never been humiliated in some way, but I just didn't dwell on it.

I do recall times that I screwed up (even if I was the only one who knew) and wished I could fix it in retrospect.

One that has always bothered me, despite being something very minor was when I was working at TGIFridays (yes I had my flare heh). Anyways a couple came in with a few kids, and the husband mentions to me its her birthday when she wasn't at the table. They were fun people and I really made sure they had a good time. They leave and the guy gives me a wierd look and I had about a buck for a tip. Mmmmmm whatever.

Then I remember it was her birthday and I forgot to do the Friday's birthday song thing which obviously he wanted for her. It was something very minor obviously, I doubt they remember being it was years ago, but I still feel bad.

I guess what it is, is that I remember hurting others far more than I remember others hurting me.

05-29-2005, 10:56 AM	#11 (permalink)
Ustwo Pissing in the cornflakes	Mmm interesting... I tried to think of times I'd been humiliated and I can't. I'm not saying I have never been humiliated in some way, but I just didn't dwell on it. I do recall times that I screwed up (even if I was the only one who knew) and wished I could fix it in retrospect. One that has always bothered me, despite being something very minor was when I was working at TGIFridays (yes I had my flare heh). Anyways a couple came in with a few kids, and the husband mentions to me its her birthday when she wasn't at the table. They were fun people and I really made sure they had a good time. They leave and the guy gives me a wierd look and I had about a buck for a tip. Mmmmmm whatever. Then I remember it was her birthday and I forgot to do the Friday's birthday song thing which obviously he wanted for her. It was something very minor obviously, I doubt they remember being it was years ago, but I still feel bad. I guess what it is, is that I remember hurting others far more than I remember others hurting me. __________________ Agents of the enemies who hold office in our own government, who attempt to eliminate our "freedoms" and our "right to know" are posting among us, I fear.....on this very forum. - host Obama - Know a Man by the friends he keeps.