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Lebell · 05-29-2005, 09:53 AM

I posted it in another thread, but Jim Fey's "Love and Logic" approach, http://www.loveandlogic.com/ , stresses consequences over discipline, which to me makes more sense, since the idea is to train your child to eventually cope in an adult world where there are consequences for your actions.

And no, there is no age too young to start. The trick is to make the consequences age appropriate so that the child can understand that when he/she does a, then b happens, and that they really don't like b so they choose not to do a.

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Lebell Cracking the Whip Location: Sexymama's arms...	I posted it in another thread, but Jim Fey's "Love and Logic" approach, http://www.loveandlogic.com/ , stresses consequences over discipline, which to me makes more sense, since the idea is to train your child to eventually cope in an adult world where there are consequences for your actions. And no, there is no age too young to start. The trick is to make the consequences age appropriate so that the child can understand that when he/she does a, then b happens, and that they really don't like b so they choose not to do a. __________________ "Of all tyrannies, a tyranny exercised for the good of its victims may be the most oppressive. It may be better to live under robber barons than under omnipotent moral busybodies. The robber baron's cruelty may sometimes sleep, his cupidity may at some point be satiated; but those who torment us for our own good will torment us without end, for they do so with the approval of their own conscience." – C. S. Lewis The ONLY sponsors we have are YOU! Please Donate!