former newt:
Have you read the whole post.. it's just that maleficent had the best possible way to ask your serious partner in post #10...
If it's just a casual, spur-of-the-moment thing.. there are condoms and you take your chances.. (I can't think of anything to ensure your sexual health here, if there are measures then someone please correct me on this..)
If it's a serious relationship then asking directly (as in example post #10) should be acceptable. If it is not, then I would be questioning her unwillingness to under-go testing...
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