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as an 18 year old male, how would i go about bringing up the subject of testing/sexual history/possible diseases with an 18 year old girl?
i mean, obviously saying "how many guys have you fucked? have you been tested for teh STDz0rz? do you have warts?" isn't gonna be very smooth...
i can understand being totally upfront and direct about it in a serious relationship, but what about casual, spur-of-the-moment type encounters? i don't want to risk something by not asking, but i don't want to drive the girls off...
and while we're at it, how do you go about asking a girl about this same stuff when you are in a serious relationship? i understand that in a serious relationship, it's not all about being smooth, but being honest and relying on trust, so asking directly should be pretty acceptable...or am i wrong?
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