Quote:
Originally Posted by shadowmaster
ok sooo heres the turn up. turns out theirs nothing wrong, thats just how she is, so I ended up offending her like a maniac.....but things are cool now...anyway thanks for the help, and come on, try to be a little nicer to someone asking for advice for crying out loud!!!!
|
People are being nice to you by showing concern for you and your partner's health so perhaps you should be more appreciative of the contribution people have tried to give you.
My first thought upon reading your initial post was that you should google up HPV. If this doesn't scare you enough to want to have a mature discussion with your partner (although it sounds like you already have) then I suppose nothing will.
This comes from the CDC...
Quote:
Most people who have a genital HPV infection do not know they are infected. The virus lives in the skin or mucous membranes and usually causes no symptoms. Some people get visible genital warts, or have pre-cancerous changes in the cervix, vulva, anus, or penis. Very rarely, HPV infection results in anal or genital cancers.
Genital warts usually appear as soft, moist, pink, or flesh-colored swellings, usually in the genital area. They can be raised or flat, single or multiple, small or large, and sometimes cauliflower shaped. They can appear on the vulva, in or around the vagina or anus, on the cervix, and on the penis, scrotum, groin, or thigh. After sexual contact with an infected person, warts may appear within weeks or months, or not at all.
Genital warts are diagnosed by visual inspection. Visible genital warts can be removed by medications the patient applies, or by treatments performed by a health care provider. Some individuals choose to forego treatment to see if the warts will disappear on their own. No treatment regimen for genital warts is better than another, and no one treatment regimen is ideal for all cases.
|
Link to the full description of:
HPV