Some people are not either good at or aren't comfortable with small talk. Ask them a question and they will answer the question, but won't expound on that usually, unless it really interests them. Doesn't make them any less of a good friend, just maybe not a playmate... They'll be there in the long haul but for short term fun and frivolity they aren't the right person.
Have you mentioned to her how you feel? I'm giving a lot of opinions based on how I know I am, she might not necessarily have the same personality quirk. When she's short or doesn't have much to say, have you asked if you are catching her at a bad time, and ask when a good time is (Some people don't want to be rude and say I can't talk now)
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