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It would be different if it were just you and her. But you've got a daughter there, who hears the screaming. What happens to a two year old who see's and feels the emotional abuse firsthand?
You need to talk to your wife about how you feel and then seek out a doctor or therapist who can help you and your wife and possibley your daughter too. If your wife refuses help, you may need to consider leaving, I know you think that your wife will get your child, but what she's doing is abuse, honestly, it sounds to me that the child would be better off with a full-time nanny.
You've mentioned that she's never hit your daughter, if she can go off on a fellow employee for what she thinks is a misdirected call then I question her control. If she gets that mad whats to stop her from hitting your daughter or you?
Your daughter doesn't really have a voice in all of this so it's your job to do what's best for the emotional well being of you, your child and wife.
Good Luck.
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