Now, if the genders were reversed, and you were a woman and she was a man, there'd be no question you were being emotionally abused, and the advice would be, if she won't get help, then get the heck out... now. There's nothing at all that you could do that would deserve that kind of treatment from another adult. It's your home, it should be a safe happy place for you to go.You shouldn't have to walk on eggshells around her, she's your wife, she's the person you should be able to talk to about anything and say pretty much anything to without worrying about a reaction
Now... there's kids involved and she seems to have major problems controlling her temper... Are the children affected by this at all? Should there be a worry there, since her anger isn't limited to just you, has she ever gotten angry at the children?
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