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have you contemplated anger management courses for her? maybe for yourself too?
a few things u should think about:
- has she always been like this?
- how can it be overcome (councelling maybe?)
- are we getting the whole story? i mean theres always two sides, have u set her off because uve done something wrong?
- do you scream back at her?
- is she insecure about her looks, personality etc?
- does she work, or is she a sit at home mum? (boredom frustration etc)
ive been married for 3.5 years now and the way i manage things like this with my wife, is by not getting involved in a shouting stouch with her. in fact ive never shouted at her in anger..nor sworn at her or in front of her. i wouldnt accept it on myself, so i wouldnt accept it if i did that to her. that way, it gives her no excuse to shout back or swear back...
i find that by doing (controlling my anger and my tongue) it gives me control over the relationship. but this was something i implemented from day 1, so i dont know if the horse has bolted in your case.. id find it hard to assert these rules, if after X amount of time, you wanted to implement such a thing, unless the two of you started with a clean slate.
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