If you knowingly fuck around with somebody who is in a relationship with another person, you have no moral ground to say anything when it happens to you. It shows a lack of respect for relationships and you become as much a part of the lie as the "cheater". Axiom_e, I am glad you avoided becoming a part of whatever game she is playing with her fiance.
I don't think that you should involve yourself with saying anything to the poor guy, though. He has had four years to figure it out, I doubt he would believe you over his wife-to-be, and you end up the bad guy. You did him favor enough already.
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